What Makes a Senior a “Senior”?

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This weekend we celebrated the 50th birthday of my husband and business partner, Mr. Greg Jones (written tongue-in-cheek). Over the last few months as he approached 50, it seemed that he was focusing more on his health and retirement discussions than ever before. I must admit, it annoyed me. I’m nowhere near retirement age and the thought of retiring bores me … to near death!

Maybe I was annoyed for other reasons that have nothing to do with the fact that I am not yet of retirement age. For example, my first husband of 14+ years (still a dear friend) retired back in 2006 in his early 50s. He still had so much to offer the world and yet chose to spend his time on “retirement” activities AKA “enjoying life”. What??? (We ran a business together too so maybe working with me exhausted the poor guy.)

Luckily, Greg and I just took over our small real estate office brokerage last summer and retirement is nowhere on the horizon for us. Plus, as newlyweds of almost two years, we’re planning on starting new endeavors with each other still, such as his 50th birthday gift of the go-ahead to get a puppy. (Don’t all little boys want puppies?)

Going back to the subject line. Every single day we run into vibrant, active people who are in their 50s, 60s, even folks in their 70s.


“Why on earth would they want to retire?”, I often think to myself. They are incredible mentors, contributors to society, role models. Many of them say that nobody wants to hire them because of their age. That upsets me too, because I know there is still so much they have to offer!

So I say to you this: “The real estate business is a great business to get into.” It’s fun, it’s flexible, it’s rewarding. It is certainly NOT intended to be a retirement job but is indeed a serious business. Folks who have a lot to offer still find this business to be a perfect fit. The average age of a REALTOR is in the mid-50s even though the average age of today’s homebuyer is around 30 years old. We can all continue to learn from each other…

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Put Her in a Home!

Often I joke that if my Mother doesn’t behave, I’ll put her in a home when she gets old. An “old folks” home!

But really, that could be a reward for sassy behavior! There are a ton of “retirement” communities for active adults sprouting up all over the nation. Many of them are resort-type communities with lots of activities for their residents. The retirement age is widely understood to be 55, but tell me, how many 55-year olds feel or even appear “old”? Not many that we know.

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How many of us have a renewed interest in what to do with our aging parents because this holiday season has just passed? My mom seems to be getting a bit more out of her mind than usual. She actually behaved this year on Christmas Day when we gathered the family together at our home. It made me think that someone is seriously worng!

I freely write this online because Mom refuses to learn how to use the internet. “Old” is a state of mind. The constant quest to learn more in life is what ages us…

Question: What do you do if your parents never planned for their retirement?

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